She’s back!

Hi Marbys! I hope you guys are doing well so far this 2025! A lot is happening and honestly, I would like to stay in bed and tune out all of the confusion! In my mind, I am in my bubble and being selective about who I let in, or get rid of! ( More like due to being so busy with work not able to keep up as much as I would like to!) I am learning that getting older has some good and not-so-good situations. The not-so-good, mainly health and to be honest too many people in my age group, the millennials are dying at an alarming rate! From health issues to unliving oneself it is bad not to mention just random freak accidents. I mean I know we all have to go sometime but 50s, 40s, 30, & 20s! What is happening?

The good is that we are finally at a point in our lives where we just can’t tolerate the mess or the noise or whatever you refer to as unorganized, random chaos. But what is that TJ? That boss who is micro-managing you, that one word the AI just can’t understand to get you to the right department for your issue. The child who completely and truly does not understand the words coming out of your mouth. The grocery bill that you know for a fact was at least $30 cheaper last week, the loss of income, the lack of sleep, and on…and on… and on…

WE are now at an age where we can confidently say, NOPE, return to sender! I really don’t want to be a part of this and I will proactively try to not get caught up in that mess! But TJ we can’t do anything about the loss of income. True you physically can’t go back to your employer and say, PLEASE TAKE ME BACK! But we can use this situation to propel us to a good thing, something that if we did work for that employer we would never have the time to do. Many individuals realized they had a skill that launched them into entrepreneurship during and after the pandemic. People were sick, dying, and couldn’t go anyway and used that time, that not-so-good time to become a different version of themselves.

So what does that say? Take the good and the not-so-good and find something in the middle that can encourage you to become an improved version of yourself! Say return to sender to things that are not so good and maybe just maybe we can try to LIVE the best version of our lives.

2nd Corinthians chapter 12 verses 8-9, NLT: “Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. Each time he said, ‘My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.’ “

And that’s what the bible says, not TJ